We're in the generation where appearance sells it all, being thin is fashionable and being ugly removes opportunities.

Despite of this, for a long time insecurities have always been with us, when we see the slim, beautiful girl and lovely smile, It is when we wonder about our appearance and makes us doubt about it. We started hating each part of us until the moment we hate how we look and any compliment will work.

Or when our "friends" tell us  how bad we look and start to criticize our flaws all the time just because they are bored with their lives and want to make someone's life miserable.

Believe me, I have received thousands of comments on how I look, how I act, on how I have to act and so much more, until one day I took all of these comments and put them in the trash can.

I was the D.U.F.F (Designated Ugly Fat Friend) of my "friends," I was the one who needs to hang out and relate with people, I was the one who was told on how to do things to improve their "lifestyle" and I was the one that everybody stared like I was a completely stupid (you know, that look they give you like saying "woah you're stupid, you wouldn't understand what are we talking"  that was the worst). But let's not talk about this now, we can talk about it later.

Let me ask you something, Who are you? And don't answer with your name but with your virtues and defects and don't tell me you don't have any virtues because even a serial killer has virtues. What you don't like about yourself, about your appearance and what do you love? C'mon, stand up, look at yourself in the mirror and tell me.

Now let's look at the positive and negative about yourself, there are more negative than positive, right? Why? And do not give me a stupid answer. Okay, now let's remove the defects, remove what you don't like about your appearance, we have removed everything you say that is bad about you, let's put it in a bag and look at it and just ask, Who am I now? You don't have defects only qualities, you have changed your appearance of something you have always wanted to see, what do you see? Do you see yourself? No, right? it's not you, it's someone else.

Embrace who you are, love who you are, all these little things make us who we are, we might not be "Miss Universe" or be the cover of the sexiest person in the world in a magazine, but keep in mind that there is always someone who loves everything about you, even the little things you hate, but if it's not you who start loving yourself, then who will be? Embrace every defect you have, love every single one of them because those little things are what make you a better person -and unique- every single day. This is told by the girl who was once the D.U.F.F, the idiot and so much more that people used to tell me and one day,  woke up and start to care a damn about what they said about her, people will always talk, but only listen to those who give you positive energy, they are the ones who worth your time.

Now, get up and love yourself, it's an order. 

Hello folks, today I brought some "findings" that I found on the network during this week, and I really wanted to share with you as some could be useful on a daily basis. Let's get start.

Hola gente, en el día de hoy les he traído unos hallazgos que he encontrado en las redes en el transcurso de esta semana, y de verdad quería compartirlo con ustedes ya que algunos se podrían utilizar cotidianamente para uso personal. Comencemos.

Jon, a young wanna-be musician, discovers he's bitten off more than he can chew when he joins an eccentric pop band led by the mysterious and enigmatic Frank.

A non conventional, neat and wonderful are the words I can describe this independent film inspired by Frank Sidebottom a character created by Chris Sievey in the 80s. What draws the attention of this character apart from his originality, it is his huge head, made of sandpaper, where Michael Fassbender hides his face for most of the film.

Frank is the leader of a band unpronounceable to say "soronprfbs", after the previous attempts of the keyboardist to drown himself in the sea, Jon (main character) comes to replace him temporarily. This is where an unbalanced stable band blends a guy balanced and eager to get fame. Unpredictable situations.

This film is totally recommended to people who love bizarre, simplicity, dark humor and unusual style of music.